This link gives a fresh insight into "sowing and reaping". I quote from Gary's article :
Giving and receiving is sharecropper faith. It is a valid level of faith to operate in, and most people will never graduate from it. What I desire is Sonship faith, where you know that you actually own the fields you are working in. You are not a sharecropper in the kingdom of God. You are a son. All that is mine is thine."
It is quite a lengthy article but I am sure you will be blessed. Rejoice